You are as much as you are right now.
Yoruba proverb
We have such poor images of ourselves that we have difficulty understanding the good others see in us. When someone gives us a compliment we are quick to point out what is wrong. When someone supports or encourages us, we remind them of our failures. We play ourselves down to such a degree that others begin to question the faith that they have placed in us. This viscous cycle can only lower our already low self-esteem. Today is a good time to rethink out thoughts about ourselves. We can accept the compliments we receive when we give them to ourselves first. We can build our confidence by celebrating our small victories and successes. We can support the faith and trust others have in by supporting and having faith in ourselves. It all begins with our willingness to acknowledge that we are really fine, just the way we are.
I really am ok with me.
2 comments:
This is sooo true. Recently I was given a compliment and I didn't believe it so although I accepted it and didn't downgrade myself out loud, I didn't accept it inside. I honestly thought the compliment was made as an attempt to manipulate me. I never gave thought to the fact that maybe it was a sincere compliment. Thank you for taking the time to post these!
Thank you! It is my wish that we all can participate in the breaking of the crust away from the third eyelid or the minds eye. Grace and peace my sister. Please keep reading and invite others too.
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